Today, Yahoo ran a story from Reuter's about a child in Italy who had been renamed by an Italian court. Orginally given, and baptised with, the name of Friday, the child has been renamed Gregory because of an Italian law that forbids "shameful" names for children. The report indicated that in Italy, Friday is considered to be unlucky by the superstitious.
Naturally, the parents are livid about this. And I don't blame them. While I'm against "shameful" names for children as much as anyone, I can't see what's particularly shameful about this name. It may be a tad outlandish and not something I would use for my own child, but, when I encounter children every day--in Taiwan, no less--named Eudora or Fish, I fail to see what the fuss is about.
Maybe this is the same Italian court that, a few years back, decreed a woman couldn't be declared to have been raped if she was wearing jeans at the time.
Many cultures in Africa, I understand, have days-of-the-week name. I remember reading in a baby-naming book once that slaves in the Old South often had names like Tuesday or Friday, because of a lively tradition of similar names in Africa.
Within Jewish communities, there are numerous men named Shabbat (the Sabbath), Pesach (Passover), and even Shavuot or Sukkot, because they were born on those holidays.
So this ruling strikes me as incredibly culturally insensitive.
I also agree with the mother's assertion that there's a class issue involved here. Italian courts have not forced wealthy celebrities who give their children unusual names to change them. So I don't see why a run-of-the-mill middle-class Italian family should have to do this.
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On the one hand, I agree with you. It's absurd for the government to insert itself in private life like this.
On the other hand, in my work a major girl-centered youth serving organization that will remain nameless, I came across far too many names that deserved to be officially changed by the courts. "Latrine" was unusually popular, and there was indeed a "Clitoris." No "Female" though. Others were not as objectionable but just as wince-worthy, like the Doll family who named their daughter Barbie. Lest anyone think I'm being racist and classist, I'd point out that an extremely wealthy Jewish philanthropist has a granddaughter named "Infinity."
Hey bud, glad you're outta there, but I can't help but saying, and Cole, Karolina (as well as Ryan and Tasha -- I made a point of telling them)agreed, that I told you so, 5 months ago. Dude, I know you don't like it when I point stuff out to you, but I said those people are no good, find a real school etc. etc., but you kept saying, "the more I look into it, the emore legitimate I realize this school is."
Umm...no, Sam, that's not quite what you said THREE months ago (CELTA was only in August, remember).
What you said was that I should be wary of the guarantee system--about not getting paid, etc. That is not why I am leaving this particular branch of this particular school. The one thing I can say for these women is that they have paid me on time, every time.
I am leaving because these women have not conducted themselves professionally in other ways--vis-a-vis my schedule, vis-a-vis my visa, vis-a-vis other issues.
The head of the company in Taiwan was at our meeting yesterday (this is Dave Roberts), and he is helping me to find other work through Shane. I think the company has been as much a victim of these women as I have been.
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